| Many men are afraid of a lifetime commitment but | | | | that longing for his woman if she is constantly available |
| what is it about a woman that makes him want to | | | | and dependant on him for her entertainment. You want |
| take that major leap into marriage bliss? Most likely the | | | | your man to wonder when you are coming over and |
| answer is knowing that he has chosen a woman that | | | | miss you a little bit. Independence is an attractive quality |
| enhances his life, allows him to be himself and inspires | | | | and one that makes a man continue to vie for your |
| him to be the best man he can be. Sounds pretty | | | | attention. You should always make him feel like a |
| simple huh? Well, often times relationships flat-line and | | | | priority but never lose your identity. Have a hobby or |
| become habitual because of co-dependency and the | | | | interest that you pursue often whether it is an art |
| loss of that excitement and spark that keeps the | | | | class, yoga, book club, gathering with the girls and so |
| juices flowing. When that happens, the man and the | | | | on. You want to have mutual activities and interests |
| woman tend to re-evaluate a lifetime of stagnancy | | | | that you share with your partner but you also need to |
| with a partner where the lust is lost and the chemistry | | | | have a sense of self that is for you to explore and |
| is co-put! | | | | appreciate. He will appreciate it for the long term. A life |
| So what is hiding on a man's secret wedding | | | | of needy is not attractive but a life of appreciation for |
| checklist? How do you get him from "I do love you" to | | | | you as your own person is appealing. |
| "till death do us part"? The truth is that there are | | | | Be Spontaneous in the Intimacy Department... |
| certain unique qualities and behaviors that he may be | | | | Spice it up and keep it exciting! No man is looking for a |
| looking for in his lifetime mate. So let's check some | | | | lifetime of frumpy t-shirts and oversized sweatpants |
| traits out that make him want to say "I do" instead of "I | | | | every night of their life! Surprise him with an intimate |
| cannot deal"! | | | | massage or a bubble bath for two. Keep exploring |
| To Nag or Not to Nag...that is the question! | | | | new ways to explore each other and he will be happy |
| A man does not feel very manly when he is | | | | to keep coming back for more! You never want him |
| constantly being told what to do or what he has not | | | | to think "this is it"? You always want him to think "I |
| done right! Many of us women get irritated and | | | | wonder what she will come up with next"! |
| consumed with the fact that we have asked for | | | | Continue to Surprise him with your New Experiences |
| something to get done or for a behavior to be | | | | and Evolution of Self. |
| adjusted and unfortunately our wishes are not being | | | | Show him and yourself that you are multi-faceted! |
| fulfilled. Although it is frustrating it can not be the only | | | | Take on your bucket list so you can evolve your life |
| topic of conversation. Why would your significant other | | | | experiences and get excited to share them with him! |
| want to pick up his phone if he knows all he is going to | | | | Your excitement will get him excited and he will think |
| get is an ear full about how he still has not booked the | | | | of how amazing you are to take on life with zest and |
| plane tickets for your visit to family for the holidays! In | | | | adventure. As you explore your many interests he will |
| fact, he may be feeling resentful of your bossy | | | | be seeing layers of you unfold for him to discover. He |
| attitude and that is why he is not doing it! Partners | | | | will get a thrill out of wondering what you will do next |
| have to be supportive of one another and pick and | | | | and you will feel progressive, stimulated and inspired. It |
| choose their battles. Sugar gets you further than | | | | leads to a mutual exhilaration. |
| vinegar and maybe a cute sticky note on his rearview | | | | In conclusion, men want stimulation, independence and |
| mirror that says, "Hunny, please don't forget to book | | | | support. They want the nurturing woman who brings |
| the flights. You're the best, Love ya" with a red lipstick | | | | them chicken noodle soup when they are stuck in bed |
| kiss, is a better way to go! He will think it is sweet and | | | | with the flu and the adventurous woman who is |
| want to get the job done because of the way you | | | | constantly searching for the next life experience to |
| ask. Sometimes it is all in the delivery and a lifetime | | | | explore and share with them. All good things in life flow. |
| with a bossy drill sergeant is not going to get him to | | | | Notice how a flowing stream has clear crisp water as |
| want to walk down that isle! Sugar and support...key | | | | it grazes the rocks and continues to move compared |
| components! | | | | to a stagnant murky pond that remains still and lifeless. |
| Get a Life! | | | | It is the same with relationships, life and love; they all |
| He should have his friends, you should have your | | | | need the energy of the flow to remain healthy and |
| friends and then you should have couples you hang | | | | strong. |
| out with. A man can tend to feel smothered or lose | | | | |