Are You a Beginner at Yoga?

My journey with Yoga began in 1992 when I took myworry about to be peaceful. I guess you could say I
first yoga class as a freshman in college, I rememberwas a little, self-important.
thinking, how am I going to do this for a whole hour andSo, here I stand 16 years later, with daily reprieve from
a half, be still and peaceful, no way. I remember thethis type of un-present thinking. Being of course, on the
teacher adjusting us in different poses, which shepremise, that I am spiritually fit on a daily basis and
referred to as asanas, and telling us to relax. Therepracticing yoga. I no longer wonder when I am going to
she was telling us to observe our thoughts, and myunderstand the pose, or how I am going to relax; the
mind was just racing.practice of yoga, just does that for me. And, I know
Seeking and wondering if I had perfected the posenow that, peace is always available if I just sit and wait
and saying to myself, "this might not be an easy task"for it to arrive.
and "OK I'm ready...when I am going to start feelingYoga has become for me, not just simple stretching
relaxed and when does this get peaceful?" Having nobut a deep practice of being still, cultivating compassion,
idea that this type of practice is something that is& appreciating life. If you're new, it's important to
learned over time. That yoga is an art, not arecognize that Yoga is not a religion but a way to
performing art, and not a sport but a spiritual discipline.practice spirituality; whatever your beliefs are. It is a
There is no destination in yoga, just like in life; it is notconduit to peace and serenity. Isn't that what we are
about where you are going, but about asking yourselfall looking for in a bottle of wine, or a piece of dark
if you have arrived.chocolate. Neither of which I indulge in at all now, due
For a very long time, I had no idea what so ever whatto in part, the practice of yoga, which teaches you the
YOGA really was. There were times in my practiceart of restraint. Yoga teaches us the difference
where I got so caught up in my ego and so drivenbetween the fleeting nature of pleasure and the long
deep into poses because there was some part of melasting joy found when you cultivate true happiness.
that wanted this sense of accomplishment. I didn'tOK, so how do we really do yoga? How do we get
know anything about "union with the divine", a ruffpresent? How do we not hold our breath when things
translation of the word, yoga. The only thing divine toare difficult and move through the challenges of the
me was Friday night, anytime after 8 pm, very decentasanas as we will move the challenges of our lives?
dark chocolate or a glass of the finest wine.We simply breathe and practice. Because when it
My thinking was more along the lines of, "Why becomes to yoga, "Practice makes not perfect but
present when you can chronically catapult yourself intopractice makes peace." I tell my students at studio
the future and chronically lament about the past." IEmbrace Yoga in East Islip, "It's all inside you, like a gift
would obsess over my toes nail polish in class andwaiting to be opened, open it and you will find your
think; I better paint those babies before the weekend.buried treasure; Your Yoga, your union with the divine,
"Relax, sure, I'll relax when this class if over and I ama sacred place that has always been hidden where
driving home, no problem. Besides, my teachersyou would never look, in the dwelling places of your
obviously don't understand, I had way too much toheart.